We can’t underestimate the role of the coaches & parents
Parents/Guardians firstly ask yourselves why is the child there?
Players join a grassroots football club for various reasons, each contributing to their overall experience and development. Some are driven by a deep passion for the game, eager to immerse themselves in every aspect of football. Others cherish the opportunity to spend time with friends, building camaraderie both on and off the pitch. For many, the goal is to refine their skills and grow as a player, pushing themselves to improve with each session. There are also those who see football as a way to maintain their fitness and well-being, enjoying the physical benefits of regular training. In most cases, it’s a combination of all these motivations, creating a dynamic and inclusive environment where players thrive in different ways.
Then ask yourselves…
In football, every experience—whether a challenge or a triumph—contributes to a player's growth. If the team loses and continues to lose, it becomes an opportunity to learn, adapt, and build resilience, focusing on improvement rather than just results. If a child is a substitute, it teaches patience, teamwork, and the understanding that every player has a role, whether on or off the pitch. When a child is taken off, it reinforces the importance of team dynamics and strategic decisions, helping them recognize that football is about the collective effort, not just individual playing time. If they make a mistake that leads to a goal, it's a chance to develop composure, accountability, and the ability to bounce back stronger. When they score a goal, it becomes a moment of celebration and confidence-building, reflecting the dedication they put into their development. And if they are named player of the match, it's a recognition of their hard work, but also a reminder that football is a continuous journey—where success is built on teamwork, discipline, and a love for the game.
How does the conversation go on the way home? What questions do you ask them?
Reflecting on a game or training session helps players develop a deeper understanding of their progress and experiences. Considering whether they enjoyed the session allows them to appreciate the value of participation and engagement. Identifying their favorite part highlights the moments that brought them joy and motivation, reinforcing their passion for football. Recognizing what they did well encourages self-confidence and positive reinforcement, helping them acknowledge their strengths and areas of improvement. By consistently reflecting on these aspects, players cultivate a mindset of growth, resilience, and enthusiasm for their development.
